Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Me and My Love

Do you ever notice the distinction that caused your bride stand out among all the other's. Relive the moment. Why did you fall in love? When did it hit you? Why did your mate take your breath away? Those distinctions, that uniqueness, that irresistible beauty knowing she would be yours for life.

Perhaps it was her laughter, the twinkle in her eye or the way she lit up when you walked into the room. She always brought you to be dissolved into pudding. She delighted you with her insight; held you spellbound by her mannerisms and held you captive by the grip of love she had on your heart.

Light the fire again. Relist the early moments of your love. Recapture the expressions of her love that caused you to find her irreplaceable. Remember the times you spent building a family, a home and a life.

At first she was beautiful in her youth but now more beautiful in each passing year. She has melted your heart over and over, she knows you backwards and forwards and arrests you time and time again.

Do you feel the glue? The bond? The delightful boundaries of marriage? Still recapturing your heart after each moment with her?

Take a few minutes to renew your "first love."

1. Remember the best times of your marriage.
2. Relive the loving moments together.
3. Resist the temptation to compare
4. Refire romance
5. Recognize your weaknesses
6. Recreate the "love links" - the little things in life she loves.
7. Renew by going on a date, a short trip or even an evening alone.

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